Articles about Grieving & Death
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Want to Become a Death Doula? 5 Questions to Ask

PRACTICE: Rice Is Life
Across India, rice dishes appear as blessed offerings in temple kitchens. Rice is ritual, rice is nourishment, and — sometimes — rice is a way to say farewell.

Dear Angel, I want the end to be easier...
Dear Angel is a column where we dig into personal questions that accompany death and dying. No question is out of bounds.

Will the Pain Ever Go Away?
Dear Angel is a weekly column where we dig into deeply personal questions that accompany death and dying. No question is out of bounds.

How I Reconciled Past Pain Through Meditation
I saw how our ancestry can shape us. And I saw how, along with generational trauma, comes generational wisdom.

The Wisdom of Grief

How 3 grief professionals find space for self-care
In this article, we summarize some of the key takeaways from “Griever’s Guide to Father’s Day”, an event featuring a number of grief experts and professionals who were willing to share intimate stories and advice about how they navigate the Father’s Day holiday.

How 3 grief professionals find space for commemoration
In this article, we summarize some of the key takeaways from “Griever’s Guide to Father’s Day”, an event featuring a number of grief experts and professionals who were willing to share intimate stories and advice about how they navigate the Father’s Day holiday.

How to find grief support during tough holiday seasons
In this article, we summarize some of the key takeaways from “Griever’s Guide to Father’s Day”, an event featuring a number of grief experts and professionals who were willing to share intimate stories and advice about how they navigate the Father’s Day holiday.

Reminders as you navigate a tough holiday
In this article, we summarize some of the key takeaways from “Griever’s Guide to Mother’s Day”, an event featuring a number of grief experts and professionals who were willing to share intimate stories and advice about how they navigate the Mother’s Day holiday.

How to find support during challenging grief periods or holidays
In this article, we summarize some of the key takeaways from “Griever’s Guide to Mother’s Day”, an event featuring a number of grief experts and professionals who were willing to share intimate stories and advice about how they navigate the Mother’s Day holiday.

What is a Will?
Welcome to Part 1 of our EOL Guide on Wills. I mean, what is a will, anyway? In this article, we highlight the important elements.

EOL Guide: What Are The Options For My Body When I Die?
It takes only a few moments of consideration to see that our traditional ways of handling dead bodies aren't working anymore.

Green Burials 101
Learn about this environmentally-friendly alternative to traditional burials.

Planning Your Funeral
Planning your funeral can feel daunting, overwhelming even, but it doesn't have to be. Start here.

Establishing a Health Care Proxy
Choosing a health care proxy could be the most important decision you make for yourself when it comes to end of life care.

3 Questions to Move You From Loneliness to Connection
Like a stomach rumbling, the feeling of loneliness is an alarm bell. In this case, it’s telling us that we need connection.

Dear Angel, I'm angry and I don't know what to do ...
Dear Angel is a space where we dig into deeply personal questions that inevitably accompany death and dying. No question is out of bounds.

EOL Guide: Wills
In this guide, we make plain and simple what a will is, how to create one, what happens if you don’t have one when you die, helpful tips to ensure that your will stands the test of time, and how to navigate disagreements if there's a contested will in your family.

How do you talk to kids about death?

What do you remember a loved one cooking for you?

If you were to design your own funeral or memorial...?

What song would you want played at your funeral?

Facing Death: Finding Dignity, Hope and Healing at the End
Dr. Jim deMaine shares the powerful introduction to his new book.

How to begin a conversation about end of life planning
Why it is scary and the lessons we have learned to begin this important conversation.

My Husband Died...
Dear Angel is a weekly column where we dig into deeply personal questions that inevitably accompany death and dying. No question is out of bounds.

Is TV Getting Better at Handling Death?
A new generation of creators are depicting a different version of end of life on screen. In doing so, television may become a more effective toolkit for those experiencing grief

Should I Make a Career Change into the End of Life Space?
The pandemic has changed many of our priorities, encouraging some to consider becoming a death doula

Q&A: BJ Miller on an Accessible Model of Palliative Care
We spoke to Dr. BJ Miller about his new company Mettle Health, and how he plans to transform palliative care

Grief and Its Body of Work
What we know and what remains to be learned about how our bodies handle grief

Q&A: Alua Arthur on Shifting Death Care
Alua Arthur is a death doula, attorney, adjunct professor, ordained minister, and founder of Going With Grace.

Dr. Ryan Van Wert is Addressing a Critical Unmet Need in End of Life Care
We were recently joined by Dr. Ryan Van Wert, critical care doctor, clinical assistant professor at Stanford, and CEO and co-founder of Vynca. Vynca was built in response to research that shows most healthcare organizations have little-to-no end of life care process.

Navigating Christianity and Grief as a Queer Person
Rachael Ward, Co-founder of Bible Queery Collective and Marketing Manager for EOL, sat down with us for an intimate talk about where they, as part of the queer community, hope for improvement in end-of-life and grief care.

Chef Dan Barber Talks Food, Comfort, and Love
On November 23, 2020, during the global pandemic, we invited many of our country’s prominent chefs to come together for an online gathering. They shared stories about their lost loved ones and the power food has to connect us.
Dan Barber, chef and co-owner of Blue Hill in Manhattan, and Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Pocantico Hills, NY, in a matter of minutes, pulled us intimately into two kitchens from his childhood.

Alice Waters Remembers Mentor Lulu Peyraud
In November 2020, we joined Tembi Locke and Kate DeBartolo to host a conversation with luminary chefs Alice Waters, Dan Barber, and others, for a legacy celebration of those we have cooked with and those we have lost.

Empathy is Everywhere and Nowhere at the Same Time: A Conversation with Dr. Adrienne Boissy
We co-hosted a discussion for hundreds of healthcare workers with Chief Experience Officer of the Cleveland Clinic, Dr. Adrienne Boissy, and Justin Baldoni, Director of the Disney film "Clouds." 'Empathy' was the obvious opener.

How Tech Can Transform End of Life: SAGA, Mideo, and Trust and Will
Every month we join our friends from the Cleveland Clinic to explore three extraordinary new technology solutions for clinicians and home-based caregivers.

Director Justin Baldoni on How Birth and Death are Beautifully, and Painfully, the Same
When we caught wind of the film "Clouds," we reached out to director Justin Baldoni to understand how this story about dying became a Disney film.

Justin Baldoni Talks about the Powerful Space at the Bedside of the Dying
At EOL’s premier of the beautiful Disney film Clouds, Justin Baldoni blew us away with his thoughtful insights and specific gratitude for end-of-life care professionals. Before it was all said and done, we were transported with him into a deeply intimate and moving family experience.

Q&A: Reframing Death (and Life) with Justin Baldoni
On October 24, 2020, we gathered hundreds of healthcare workers for an open discussion with Justin Baldoni, Director and Producer of Disney's "Clouds," and Adrienne Boissy, physician and Chief Experience Officer at the Cleveland Clinic.

Grief Theories and the Thinking Behind Them
From the COVIDPAPER.ORG

Coping with Death on the Front Lines, a Medical Perspective
From the COVIDPAPER.ORG, Paper Editors: Candi K. Cann, Ph.D, Michael Hebb, Megan Devine, LCPC, Alica Forneret, Allison Gilbert, Lashanna Williams, Stephanie Gailing, Silvia Perez-Protto, M.D., Rana Adwish, M.D.

Grieving in a Pandemic: Connection in a Difficult Time
From the COVIDPAPER.ORG, Paper Editors: Candi K. Cann, Ph.D, Michael Hebb, Megan Devine, LCPC, Alica Forneret, Allison Gilbert, Lashanna Williams, Stephanie Gailing, Silvia Perez-Protto, M.D., Rana Adwish, M.D.

COVID-19 Burial, Cremation, and the Pandemic Funeral
From the COVIDPAPER.ORG, Paper Editors: Candi K. Cann, Ph.D, Michael Hebb, Megan Devine, LCPC, Alica Forneret, Allison Gilbert, Lashanna Williams, Stephanie Gailing, Silvia Perez-Protto, M.D., Rana Adwish, M.D.

Dying Alone: Tools for Keeping in Touch in an Era of Pandemic Dying
From the COVIDPAPER.ORG, Paper Editors: Candi K. Cann, Ph.D, Michael Hebb, Megan Devine, LCPC, Alica Forneret, Allison Gilbert, Lashanna Williams, Stephanie Gailing, Silvia Perez-Protto, M.D., Rana Adwish, M.D.
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Practice For Death
Occupy Death | Occupy Life: The Death Positive Movement
https://www.consciousdyinginstitute.com/inspiring-quotes/occupy-death-by-tarron-estes
For us new age boomers and spiritual seekers, this last transformational movement of Practicing for Death, is the crown jewel of how to be fully in our lives. To occupy death is to embody life. We must wake up out of whatever sleeping or waking dreams we have left, whatever dull, mind numbing trances we are still in, whatever false hope we might have that we will get out of this life without facing our own mortality and death.
Some wonder about why we should entertain such gloomy topics anyway, lest we find ourselves bogged down by this unnecessary heaviness. To them I would say that death awareness itches all the time, that it rumbles continually just under the surface, that our real choice is between letting it fester in our unconscious or leveraging it to experience feelings of meaning and deeper connection.

How Kundalini Yoga Helped Me Navigate Trying Times
My meditation practice was a grounding force when I felt shaken awake by difficult life circumstances.

How To Protect Your Most Important Asset With Disability Insurance
Most people see life insurance as a no-brainer to protect against losing their income due to death, but few people consider protecting their human capital in the event they become sick or injured.

Yes, You Probably Need Life Insurance And Here's Why
Life insurance is not sexy. It’s not fun to talk about and it’s definitely not a process anyone enjoys. However, much like death and taxes, buying life insurance is an essential part of life and a crucial element of sound financial planning.

The tale of two deaths. Aretha Franklin and John McCain
Over half of American adults don’t have a will, and many more have never talked to their loved ones about what they want done with their remains or what kind of funeral they want.

We should all be organ donors
Ninety-five percent of American adults support organ donation, but only fifty-four percent are actually signed up as donors.

Long-Term Care Insurance Explained
It might be hard to imagine now, but chances are you’ll need some help taking care of yourself later in life. The big question is: How will you pay for it?
By Barbara Marquand
Buying long-term care insurance is one way to prepare.

50 Ways to Leave Your… Body
Explore all of the new ways we can honor our loved ones!

End of Life Leaders gather to create the COVID Paper

Leaders gather to create White Paper
More than 80 specialists from around the globe who deal daily with the issues of dying and grief have joined to develop new rituals and resources to honor those who die during the COVID-19 era and to aid the living as they grapple with the crisis.
Death doulas provide support, comfort and a new option for the dying and their families
How being a Death Doula changed my perspective on living
This is what it's like to be a Death Doula